Each person’s aspirations are distinct, with some being more unique than others.
To truly focus on our life’s purpose, we must recognize and embrace our individuality, viewing opportunities through our own perspective rather than someone else’s.
It’s evident why some people who avoid problems also miss out on opportunities.
We can’t expect to have everything without making the necessary sacrifices—life’s give and take prices. In other words, there’s always something we must be ready to give up in order to eventually gain something else in return.
Creative destruction often arises from a touch of madness and patience that must be in place for the door to be opened. So it’s the disorder and chaos that bring the rewards of life.
Samuel Ogden Edison Jr., father of Thomas Edison, once worried about his son’s disorderly and unconventional path, comparing him to his more conventional siblings.
Similarly, Bill Gates Sr. expressed concern when his son, Bill Gates Jr., dropped out of Harvard to pursue his own ventures.
Even Elon Musk faced skepticism from his father, Errol Musk, who constantly called him a failed child. In order to escape from his father and gain his freedom, Elon had to join his mother in Canada, where his unique gifts began to manifest.
Viewing our life through others’ experiences is the beginning of our failures because their paths to success have nothing to do with our unique paths. It’s fear that stands in our way and creates roadblocks to our success. It’s our fear of competition.